Saturday, July 23, 2022

The Importance of Hiring a Wedding Coordinator

 

The Importance of Hiring a Wedding Coordinator


We know working with a budget can be challenging when planning a wedding, much less a wedding of your dreams.  One of the best investments is hiring a Day of Coordinator at least, especially if you value your sanity.  Even the craftiest DIY bride needs assistance on her special day.  Every bride deserves to sit back, relax, and have fun getting ready for her wedding with her friends.  Not Hiring A Day Of Wedding Coordinator

If a wedding coordinator is not in your budget consider hiring a day of coordinator. For the third and not final time, you will be very busy. Spending a few extra from your budget to hire a designated coordinator will certainly take an immense load of stress of your shoulders. A stress free bride is the goal!  Let’s read a few horror stories from brides who regret not hiring a coordinator……

"We didn't have a full wedding planner ... I was very organized and I knew exactly what I wanted but I'm only one person," said Caroline Ripa, who has also shared a list of her 2022 wedding regrets on TikTok.

She did hire a day-of coordinator for her wedding in September 2021, but the last-minute stressors started before the big day."When it came to the wedding week, I was very overwhelmed and there was so much going on," she said.

 

"What I regret is spending so much time worrying about little details—the seating plan, the music, the bridesmaids' dresses...In the end, all the stress I put myself through leading up to the big day had me throwing up and it was avoidable. I should have hired a Day of Wedding Coordinator.  Your wedding is perfect regardless of whether certain details don't work out the way you planned." —Ruth

 

“Wedding tasks aren't always fun. Sure, it's a ball to ooh and aah over cake designs, but there's nothing enjoyable about researching mini-buses for guest transport or making seating charts. There isn't much joy in reviewing vendor contracts or keeping track of payments, either. Contrary to what I had thought, hiring a wedding planner doesn't mean outsourcing your entire wedding; a wedding planner only handles what you want them to (support at the start to get you on the right track, on-the-day coordination only, or indeed the whole shebang) so won't take over and choose your final bouquet design for you. So if do you want to drive your wedding planning, you can focus on the fun parts... and leave the boring bits to someone else, and makes sure your day runs smoothly.” –Cara

 

“I have always thought of myself as a creative person and wanted to keep costs down with our wedding as we already have two children and my soon to be husband just got a new job.  The venue said they would help in the reception set-up and I had a handful of family and friends to help set-up before the wedding too.  I had created a timeline and checklist for everyone to refer to day of the wedding to keep things on track and organized including my bridesmaids.  Only my mom and the officiant followed the list.  Three of my vendors were late, my make-up artist canceled last minute, my hair stylist didn’t show, the DJ was late, and I could go on.  I wish I had spent the money on a Day of Coordinator, so much of the chaos could have been avoided, in the end I was so stressed out, I ended up almost drunk by the time I walked down the aisle.” – Heather

 

Not hiring a wedding coordinator is on the top 5 biggest regrets of brides.  At least a day of coordinator is a good investment to the running of your big day not to mention your sanity.  Affordable wedding coordinators are out there in the world, you just have to know how to find them and vet them.  We always offer to work with any budget, but mindful that our time is worthwhile and we always offer a free phone consultation.  You need to be able to trust your planner and or coordinator, get to know them a little.  You can share duties if you are a hands on bride or you can give your colors and preferences and leave the rest up to them.  This is your day and you deserve to enjoy it not be so stressed out you turn into a bridezilla.

 

For more information and wedding planning and coordination pricing check out www.blessedeventsca.org

 


 

Wednesday, July 13, 2022

How to Choose a Wedding Dress- Dos & Don'ts

 

How To Choose A Wedding Dress – A Simple Guide With Dos And Don'ts

So your wedding date has been fixed and the most important thing for any bride is to select her wedding dress. It can never be too soon when it comes to making a check-list for the wedding and the perfect dress always tops the list. But there may be many questions and concerns when one is wondering how to choose a wedding dress. Now, every girl has some idea (if not the most clear one) about the kind of dress she wants to wear and where to find it. However, there are always some dos and don’ts involved when you have to pick one. So let’s check out what one must and what one mustn’t do when you are out and about wondering how to choose a wedding dress.


Don’ts – How To Choose A Wedding Dress

  1. Everything you see on TV is not gorgeous in real life too. TV shows and fashion shows are designed in a way to make you fall for the dresses you see. But don’t believe everything you see on TV. Use your own style when going about how to choose a wedding dress.
  2. Don’t even think about ordering your dress online. YES, there are many bridal-themed websites these days that offer to deliver ‘the dream’ dress with no shipping costs and impressive discounts that seem right for you. But ordering wedding gowns online is a big no!
  3. Don’t walk into a dress boutique with no clue of what you want. To find the best dress takes time even with a clear idea in mind, and nobody knows how to choose a wedding dress right away. Therefore, walking into the boutique with no clue will take you forever to settle down on something.
  4. Don’t walk in without a budget either. Wedding gowns are mighty expensive and take up a huge share of your wedding budget. You must be ready with your survey and idea of how much you’re willing to spend to pick the perfect dress.
  5. Don’t leave dress selection to the last minute. There’s a lot involved when it comes to selecting dresses. You need to pick the best choice, get it fixed as per your size and try it on a zillion times. Leave ample time for all that.
  6. Don’t take a huge team for the trials. Too many people with too many opinions will only confuse you further.