So for my guys out there here some info to help you along as you ponder forever with your true love.
Surprise her! Most women like surprises, and who doesn't like surprise jewelry? Even if you two go engagement ring shopping together and or she has picked out her ring, that leaves the rest of the proposal up to you. Surprise her on the day, the how, when, where is all up to you.
Be thoughtful! Be thoughtful in your proposal, don't just ask her on a dirty subway train or while waiting in line for drive through food. Select a place that is romantic, or special to the two of you, a place that captures your story.
Financials! Remember the average engagement ring equals the sum of 2 months salary. If you want to go bigger than that, then remember to start saving either for lump sum, or layaway, credit. But be responsible about how much you are paying for an engagement ring.
Get her input! Listen to your girlfriend when she points at rings as you walk along the jewelry store cases. Does she like emerald cut, rose gold, single stone, or cluster? Ask the women in your life to give you some tips on current trends and what your girlfriend has said around them. This is a ring she will wear for the rest of her life, you want her to love it, you would hate to put so much effort into an elaborate proposal for her to not like her ring.
Be true! Don't be cheesy. Don't do what every other guy has done either. If you are thinking of surprising her with her ring in desert at dinner, make it unique. Also be safe, there are more trips to the emergency room for swallowed rings then you would think.
The where! Again keep it true to you and your relationship, don't pick the top of the Empire States building because that's what your best friend did or you saw it in some old romantic movie unless it really works for you. Pick a place that means something to the both of you.
Most importantly breathe! and Enjoy this lovely important time!
